Love of man or spirituality?
and the fact that I have other beautiful things in my life and other duties that I love and that I appreciate and value?
Simple: I go or participate only in the ones that deserve it.
And to the others I "sigh" and fulfill the dharma of love as necessary, or I seek to recover by various means that are now at hand, in a wise way.
However, our deeds may seem from the outside to take place, giving precedence to the love of man over the love of what we seek in the infinite of our hearts.
And that's because when it comes to a time that we owe to others, we can't freely dispose of it.
But the spiritual quest travels with us everywhere.
This dichotomy might look different when our loved ones don't really need us very much.
Perhaps it is only an aspect related to a comfort, which we can assess at the moment that it is not necessarily necessary. Just like that.
Otherwise, the legend of the poor Jew who could not fulfill his morning practice (some prayers) remains valid, because he must necessarily finish repairing the shoes for his villagers who had to go to work, using those unique shoes in their lives.
Leo Radutz (yogacharya), founder of the Abheda system, initiator of the Good OM Revolution