Question:
“You say on the radio that love is a precious gift
Even more so when I live it.
Sorry if I didn’t quote entirely correctly,
but I got the idea, I hope:).
And I’ve wanted to ask you for a long time
What do you do when you live it only you and the other, right?
Or when the other says yes, but it hurts you?
In many cases from what I have seen around,
You like someone
that someone likes someone else.
Someone else who is liked likes someone else and so on.
Rare are the cases when the two like each other 100%
And they choose to be there, without looking outside for “support”.
I have felt and offered many times in this life
Unconditional love and it’s wonderful,
When I love I feel that I can bring
about 2 mountains from Prahova Valley in Bucharest 🙂
But there are still times when you need to receive.
‘Cause only if you give, you give and you don’t receive,
Frustration comes in somewhere.
I know I’m more “earthy” and yes,
I still have attachments
and maybe many more
But I wanted to ask you that.”
Acharya Leo Radutz answers:
“Love is a divine gift when you live it.
When you experience love, you feel it as a divine gift. If you don’t live it and someone else lives it… it’s not really.
It’s natural that it should be like this.
When you live it, but the other person doesn’t – it bothers you, but what can you do?
We have the following suggestions:
– because you love him, you don’t even think about imposing yourself or demanding, because if he doesn’t like you you bother him and because you love him you don’t want to bother him;
– you love him more, because that’s the only chance for love to appear in him.– maybe yes, maybe not, but it’s the only chance you can do something in this direction;
– you practice real yoga to change and become more and more a gift to increase the chances of being loved, of being a delight for… God, for anyone but especially for that person;
– If you love him even more but love doesn’t appear in him, it’s amazing that the potential to meet another person you love but who also loves you will increase a lot.
If, however, the person you love hurts you… It’s good to take a distance. There’s no point.”